Nobody Knows

It’s amazing how your life change in a second, how the first impressions change, for good or for bad. In some situations, the first impression took by someone not only change for a better impression; sometimes you are impressed how people or the situations change by the time. I think a first impression not only refers to something related to a specific person, also refers to situations that were given to you and you couldn’t handle it at that moment. We all have moments in which we feel defeated, we are humans right? But we have to learn about those moments and learn to get stronger and powerful.

It was a beautiful sunny day in the beach, I was with my girl friends hanging out, I can barely remember that one of the girls was bugging me and we were laughing, suddenly my cell phone rang, it was my brother calling me, I was surprised, because even though my brother and I are very united and communicative with each other, every time I get a call of him it’s to saying me that something happened or important situations. Finally, I answered the phone and my brother’s voice was very funny like he was laughing about something and I remember like it was yesterday that he told me “I want to tell you something” and he followed that expression with another: “you will be an aunt, because you will have a nephew or a niece” and I didn’t thought about him, I thought about a cousin of mine, an aunt or someone of my family tree. When my brother kept talking to me I realized he was talking about his baby, his future baby. I was very surprised, I can say, never in my life I thought that my brother was going to be a young father. By the way, my brother’s age is 20 years old; in that time he was 19 years old.

The first thing I did after I hanged up the cell phone was cry like a baby when his mother doesn’t pay attention to him. I was very surprised; I couldn’t believe it in that moment because it was something shocking for me. At this moment, I don’t know if I was crying because the good and happy feeling it was passing through my veins or just because I didn’t want my brother to be a father yet, not at his young age. Obviously my friends hugged me in that moment and they told me not to cry because it will be a future baby I will love for the rest of my life, I knew that but I was shocked, sad, happy, all of these feelings in one moment.

That day I came back to my house and I saw my mother crying, and she told me that if I was already told, and she told me that she didn’t knew if she was crying because she was happy or because she was sad. I was passing through that feeling too, and is terrible, the worst feeling you can pass in your entire life. I remember that three days later we went to my brother’s girlfriend house because my parents had a date with her parents to talk about what they will going to do, if they will get married or whatever situation, they had to know.

My brother get married at the age of 19, and so his wife. They are married 1 year and a half now, and they are one of the happiest couples I have ever seen. My niece, Giuliana, was born in December 28^th of 2010, almost Christmas and almost New Year, we all were concerned about the date because Diana, my brother’s wife, was born in December 25, so nobody wanted Giuliana to born that “special” date too.

Now, we are happy with two new members in our family, because Diana and Giuliana are very welcomed in our home because they deserve it because they show to us that they love us. Even though my brother doesn’t live here in my home, they are very close to our house because we live in the same sector. We see Giuliana a lot, like four days in a week plus the weekend. Who would have thought that we could be happier with my brother married and with the new baby that is almost nine months now. That’s why we don’t have to judge something, a situation or a person because we don’t know how it’s going to be later.